blueapple wrote:I feel like this is really in the wrong forum. This is more of a never-asked question than a FAQ.
OP, many people have shared their thoughts with you and instead of engaging you just continue to say, "thanks but I disagree so you're wrong" and then you get angry that nobody has engaged with you in the exact manner that you wanted. I'm not even sure what kind of conversation you were/are looking for here, to be honest. I wish you good luck. I also hope in a few months you read back through this thread with fresh eyes and notice that your tone was pretty dismissive, rude, and condescending.
Hmm, thanks for your comment. I would challenge you or anyone else to find one instance where I flat out called somebody wrong when providing their response to the actual topic. Obviously, I could be wrong (as I have said multiple times on this thread), but I don't recall there being a single instance In this entire thread where i was the one calling someone else wrong when they actually "engaged the question" (and didn't resort to personal insults and off-topic speculation). Perhaps you're referring to times in which I have criticized a lack of constructive feedback or guidance?
I also don't recall getting angry. Tone is a tough thing to accomplish on a wRitten forum, though I tried my best to come across as respectful. Obviously that doesn't mean I always succeeded, and I understand I need to improve. Anyway, I appreciate the feedback, and I agree that personal reflection and self awareness are important traits, so if I'm still on the site in a few months I'll certainly look back with fresh eyes and an open mind