johnnyquest wrote:How fair is it to call out a dude for going to a TTT?
About 10% fair but when you've just been embarrassed and yelled at, you look for ways to make someone else look bad (and then you get embarrassed more on TLS).
No, it is 0% fair.
He didn't embarrass you, you did.
1. You demonstrated that you don't have basic skills that are reasonably expected of someone who is 22+ years old and has a professional job.
2. You demonstrated a lack the awareness of your own limitations.
3. You demonstrated a lack of problem solving skills in either quickly using google or asking for help.
4. You demonstrated a lack of judgment in not circling back and being proactive in saying you ran into difficulty.
This is real work and instead of doing it, you have added to the stress level of the person who assigned it to you. There are few things more frustrating then needing to put more effort into delegating a task than doing it yourself.
These mistakes happen and are generally quickly forgiven if the person owns up to it and fixes the issue. Given your rant here, I'm guessing the victim/entitlement mentality was readily apparent and you've dug yourself quite a hole. Good luck. I think you are going to need it.