Living Alone Forum

[snowpeach06]

Right now I'm torn between two apartments, a one bedroom and a two bedroom, and I was just curious about what law students have to say about living alone. Is not getting a roomie something you regret (is it lonely, too expensive, boring), or has it been beneficial in some way? Thanks for any advice.

[doza]

I would love to hear what people say about this, too. I was wondering this myself.

[stintez]

Living by yourself is more expensive but i am a very clean person and find that i would be miserable if i had a roommate. Even in undergrad I only had a roommate one time. So it is up to you. If i want to talk to people ill go out or call someone to come over. Just my 2 cents.

[CmonSD]

Would you be living with another law student? I think that would make a huge difference. If you have someone to study with that would probably be beneficial. However, having a non-law school roommate who is out enjoying life/bringing people over during finals may be more of a distraction.

PS I moved into my first 1 bedroom and LOVE living alone. Never thought I would.

[Bert]

I am planning to live by myself and then with my SO, whenever she moves down. I feel that there is some certainty associated with living alone -- that you won't come home from a long weekend away to find out that your [former] room-mate and his friends moved everything out of the apartment while you were gone.

[webbylu87]

I feel like this is just a matter of preference. I lived with two roommates during college but for the past year have lived alone. I personally hate living alone. I get bored and lonely. I'll be living with two roommates (both law students) next year and am pretty excited. Having other people in the apartment to talk to when you're getting frustrated or need a study break will help keep me sane like it did in college. If you go this route though, I'd be sure to make sure your potential roommates feel the same way. Also, I'm paying at least $250 less a month in rent/utilities for a three bedroom as opposed to a one bedroom. I'm already taking out massive loans so watching the cost of rent is crucial for me.

[stintez]

Would you be living with another law student? I think that would make a huge difference. If you have someone to study with that would probably be beneficial. However, having a non-law school roommate who is out enjoying life/bringing people over during finals may be more of a distraction.

PS I moved into my first 1 bedroom and LOVE living alone. Never thought I would.

For me I am a very interactive person and need to be around people. However with that being said when I am studying or doing anything other than having a good time I like to have my own space. For mean that means more than just my own room but my own place to call my own. It is stupid because it is expensive, however law school cost so much anyway id rather be happy and able to study. Also I love coming home an knowing that everything is going to be the way i left it. Also i am going to get a puppy when i get back from Mexico in aug. So my lil pup will be my roommate so to speak.

[snowpeach06]

Another question to ask if I should not live alone, is: does one roomie suffice? Or is more somehow better?

[Matthies]

I am planning to live by myself and then with my SO, whenever she moves down.

I'm planning to live with your SO until she moves down.

Seriously though, I really liked living alone in LS, well becuase I hate people, but also you get enough endless, meaningless law schoolm chat with your friends at school, tlaking about that stuff at home would get old. But if you do get a roomate then get anouther LS, becuase normal people will get sick of you talking about that shit long before LS will.

[macattaq]

This first year has sucked, in terms of the roommate arrangement. If you can afford it, just live alone. Even if the potential roommate is also a grad/professional student, if its not necessary, don't do it. There are just too many things to coordinate. If you are the neat, clean one out of the two, it will drive you mad.

[stintez]

This first year has sucked, in terms of the roommate arrangement. If you can afford it, just live alone. Even if the potential roommate is also a grad/professional student, if its not necessary, don't do it. There are just too many things to coordinate. If you are the neat, clean one out of the two, it will drive you mad.

+100000

[snowpeach06]

This first year has sucked, in terms of the roommate arrangement. If you can afford it, just live alone. Even if the potential roommate is also a grad/professional student, if its not necessary, don't do it. There are just too many things to coordinate. If you are the neat, clean one out of the two, it will drive you mad.

Did you not talk to your roomie ahead of time and discuss things like neatness, sleeping patterns, study habits, partying ect?

[SamSeaborn2016]

I have an overall preference for living alone but I live with roommates now and the situation is great. I actually think having non-law school roommates will be beneficial to my mental health.

[webbylu87]

I think another valid point is whether or not you tend to study at home or not. I can't concentrate at home and will probably spend a lot of time at the LS doing work so that tension when you're studying in your room may not be there. It just depends on your and your roommate's habits. (Also, we found an apartment where we each have our own bathroom. Crucial!)

[missvik218]

I started out thinking I wanted to live alone, but I just signed a lease for a 4/4 We'll see how that goes!

[macattaq]

This first year has sucked, in terms of the roommate arrangement. If you can afford it, just live alone. Even if the potential roommate is also a grad/professional student, if its not necessary, don't do it. There are just too many things to coordinate. If you are the neat, clean one out of the two, it will drive you mad.

Did you not talk to your roomie ahead of time and discuss things like neatness, sleeping patterns, study habits, partying ect?

Of course I did. Then the bitch went crazy.

[jl2032]

I'm the not-so-clean one in these scenarios and it isn't fun to have someone who's super uptight about it hound you all day either. So, if the choice is between living alone and living with someone you don't know (or aren't compatible with), live alone if you can afford it.

Personally, I just bought a house and moved my parents in with me because it made more sense for them financially. I won't get too much in the way of saving on housing since they don't work, but at least I'll get home-cooked meals and laundry service when I need it (and I'm sure I'll need it as a 1L).

They're pretty cool as roommates, and I know I can live with them without a problem. It should be nice to come home to family and get a break from all the law school stress. They've got their own floor with their own bathroom and usually aren't up and about when I get home from work (soon to be replaced by school/library where I plan to study). So, most days I feel like I'm living alone. I might be getting the best of both worlds.

[A'nold]

I think another valid point is whether or not you tend to study at home or not. I can't concentrate at home and will probably spend a lot of time at the LS doing work so that tension when you're studying in your room may not be there. It just depends on your and your roommate's habits. (Also, we found an apartment where we each have our own bathroom. Crucial!)

Oh, if you have your own bathroom you are set. I had roommates for awhile in UG and you never know what you were going to find in the shower.

[SwollenMonkey]

Alone is easier cause you set the rules and you decided if you want to enforce them.
However, I am the type of person that needs to share those "A ha!" moments whenever I learn something new, so I try to keep a list of people that I can call.


If you go alone, keep friends and show interests in them so they can be there for you when you need them. With roomies, well, they might get sick and tired of hearing your crap. Absence makes the heart grow fonder, lol.

[Xnegd]

I've had a roommate for most of my life, until now.

I LOVE living alone. It's $200 more for my rent, but the amount I save of food, electricity, repair, water, etc make it so very much worth it.

[snowpeach06]

This decision is keeping me up at night. I just keep going back and fourth "the one bedroom is so much nicer/easier, but, I'll be bored/lonely." Ohh god. I wish I was a better decision maker, or just had something that kind of made the decision for me. I kind of thought asking around would enlighten me to something I didn't realize before, but I think it really just comes down to preference of freedom or companionship.

[Renzo]

This first year has sucked, in terms of the roommate arrangement. If you can afford it, just live alone. Even if the potential roommate is also a grad/professional student, if its not necessary, don't do it. There are just too many things to coordinate. If you are the neat, clean one out of the two, it will drive you mad.

Did you not talk to your roomie ahead of time and discuss things like neatness, sleeping patterns, study habits, partying ect?

Of course I did. Then the bitch went crazy.

Happend to me too. But I'm married to her, so I'm kind of stuck.

[v. dentata]

I would love to hear what people say about this, too. I was wondering this myself.

Me too!

[keg411]

It depends on your personality. I could never live alone because I'd just become a hermit and end up having zero human interaction ever (I also like roommates for safety purposes and cheapness purposes). I have friends that could never live alone because they are such extroverts that being alone actually creates stress. But if you've lived alone before or you think it would be the most positive experience for you and you can afford it, why not?

[SaintClarence27]

Would you be living with another law student? I think that would make a huge difference. If you have someone to study with that would probably be beneficial. However, having a non-law school roommate who is out enjoying life/bringing people over during finals may be more of a distraction.

PS I moved into my first 1 bedroom and LOVE living alone. Never thought I would.

For me I am a very interactive person and need to be around people. However with that being said when I am studying or doing anything other than having a good time I like to have my own space. For mean that means more than just my own room but my own place to call my own. It is stupid because it is expensive, however law school cost so much anyway id rather be happy and able to study. Also I love coming home an knowing that everything is going to be the way i left it. Also i am going to get a puppy when i get back from Mexico in aug. So my lil pup will be my roommate so to speak.

It's not the living alone that's the ridiculous part of this.