mrmediocre wrote:rayiner wrote:Did you overreach?
it would appear, no?
I meant, are you a 5 hitting on an 8.5? Or are you an 8 hitting on an 8.5?
She didn't necessarily reject you because you overreached. She might just not be interested in dating right now, not interested in dating fellow students, etc. You couldn't have predicted those factors before going for it, but you probably could've predicted the rejection in the situation where you were aiming way out of your league.