k5220 wrote:YibanRen wrote:k5220 wrote:I think it's like any time you talk about a weakness in an interview. Being honest about what happened could be really good, but I'd close with something quick about how it made you learn how to juggle multiple things at once or something like that, just to make it clear that it's a problem that's behind you now.
You and the potato bro need to forget this advice ASAP.
These interviews are nothing like law school personal statements. Seriously, don't talk about grades ever. Don't provide excuses ever. The second you look weak to them at all you are done. It is like dating--it is all about appearances for a long time until you have kids and a dog and you can carry on a boring conversation while they pee in front of you without batting an eye.
Interviewers want to bring someone back to the hiring partners that looks good on paper, they want to bring someone back that their coworkers won't think is an aspie loser, and also want to bring back someone that makes work a little less crappy. Any of these can be the overriding driver, depending upon the interviewer and firm/company. However, the onlything that destroys all three of these criteria is being weird. Unless this is like Susman Godfrey or Keker or Kirkland or Cravath or Wachtell or X appellate group of V100, or some firm that actually has a hard cut off for entry levels, the most your grades can be limiting is a member of the hiring committee scanning your transcript for like five seconds on a callback.
There are plenty of ways you can destroy yourself--you give them a look that makes you seem like a perv, or you say something really awkward, or maybe you are too plain, or not plain enough, or are too proud of something they don't like ideologically, or maybe you remind them of someone else at the firm they hate. Usually, it isn't that they hate you, it is just that they don't like you like you--in that way it is a lot like speed dating--10 people may be good enough, but maybe only one clicked. In conclusion, there are any number of reasons that you can autodinged before you even open your little mouth. However, PLEASE, I IMPLORE YOU, DON'T GIVE THEM ANOTHER REASON BY DISCUSSING GRADES UNLESS SPECIFICALLY, AND UNEQUIVOCALLY ASKED, THIS WILL TIP THEM OFF THAT YOU ARE EITHER PRIDEFUL OR CLUELESS.
I didn't mean OP should discuss their personal issues unless it was prompted / relevant to the discussion. I just meant that if it did come up, they should be sure to follow it with "and this is why it's no longer a problem."
I guess, but if that comes up then you probably aren't getting the job.