Desert Fox wrote:I think you are sorta fucked if you tell and if you don't.
If you do, you look like an idiot who got involved in a messy relationship. If you don't, she can possibly poison the well.
I'd call and see if you can't come to an understanding, then pray she doesn't start rumors. But know, the minute you sweep this under the rug, you'll probably forfeit any chance the firm will take your side and not hold it against you. The only reason I'd go this way is because the HR piece of ass doesn't have much pull in the firm, at least usually.
Prepare doze clerkship apps for flyover country.
I think this is the most cogent analysis