Danger Zone wrote:zweitbester wrote:Just use your judgment. If you find that you still can't arrive at a clear answer, take a class or lesson on social awareness (aka not having asperger's) so that you're not no-offered as a summer.
Doesn't this assume that they even have the awareness to realize they have poor judgment
^ seems to be a big issue ITT.
Fundamental rule of social interaction: sometimes illogical and/or irrational choices are also often still correct and socially pleasant ones. Decorum gives no fucks about RIGOROUS LOGICALLY COHERENT ARGUMENTS because it's about dealing with sensitivities, unwritten norms and latent emotions.