explain this to an aspie please
Posted: Tue Jun 19, 2012 4:51 pm
I'm an aspie.
Please explain how/why networking works. I have found that it does. Big time. I attended a bar event during the first few months of 1L year (last September), chatted about Tiger Woods with this guy who was into golf, shot him an email saying "Great talking to you. Perhaps we'll cross paths later." About a year later, I emailed him again before his firm attended my school for OCI. He tipped off the screener and I got a callback interview with his v50, where he conveniently was one of the callback interviewers, and where I am presently a summer associate. And he is not even a partner (senior associate).
What exactly happens here, neurologically - or whatever the effects are - for him to favor me based on a conversation he could've had with any random soul on a bus.
Is there an interesting article out there explaining this networking effect? I'm as much a stranger as any of the thousands of people who he sees in his world. Why not pick one of them based on credentials, as opposed to me based upon a meaningless conversation about golf.
I am an aspie. I repeat. I do not understand networking, but understand that it works.
Please explain how/why networking works. I have found that it does. Big time. I attended a bar event during the first few months of 1L year (last September), chatted about Tiger Woods with this guy who was into golf, shot him an email saying "Great talking to you. Perhaps we'll cross paths later." About a year later, I emailed him again before his firm attended my school for OCI. He tipped off the screener and I got a callback interview with his v50, where he conveniently was one of the callback interviewers, and where I am presently a summer associate. And he is not even a partner (senior associate).
What exactly happens here, neurologically - or whatever the effects are - for him to favor me based on a conversation he could've had with any random soul on a bus.
Is there an interesting article out there explaining this networking effect? I'm as much a stranger as any of the thousands of people who he sees in his world. Why not pick one of them based on credentials, as opposed to me based upon a meaningless conversation about golf.
I am an aspie. I repeat. I do not understand networking, but understand that it works.