ladyjane wrote:Ozark - Does she know the plan? Does she know that you are looking to get hitched ASAP or does she have her sights set on a larger wedding. Don't sacrifice your wedding for unemployment. And be prepared that she may not want to rush after five years of foot dragging.
I'm not necessarily looking to get married right away. I'm just wondering about the option should it be more financially beneficial to knock out the legalities and then later have the ceremony (which unfortunately will be a pretty low-key affair by necessity).
That sounds kind of cold and calculating, I know. But I should note: This was actually her idea. Lord knows if she doesn't want to rush things, my track record alone suggests I'm plenty fine with that.