NayBoer wrote:A lot of the guys who say "nice guys finish last!" and "girls only want jerks!" follow it either explicitly or implicitly with "I'm the good one she should want" and eventually, after years of bitterness, "I'm glad all her relationships turn out badly, serves her right for not being with me." Just makes me wonder how nice some of these self-proclaimed "nice guys" really area if they turn to petty schadenfreude.
The other nice guys are probably some combination of meek, shy, or otherwise unattractive (nice or not, it's hard to be with somebody who has some annoying or unattractive characteristics). You also won't get girls without expressing interest, so the shy nice-guy is doomed to less success.
There are three types of nice guys.
Confident nice guys, these guys are many times in long relationship, treat their girlfriends nicely and generally are all around good guys.
There are introverted nice guys, who are all around good guys but are shy. They go a long time between women, but then usually have nice relationships with ugly girls.
Then there is the "Nice Guy" who is cowardly, and also has a high sense of entitlement. They refuse to make a move, pretend to be a friend in order to weasel their way into a girls pants. They are just assholes without any confidence.