tkgrrett wrote:Are you on drugs?? That paragraph focused entirely on the idea of there being some inherent relationship breaking stress that comes along with law school. It was completely separate from distance.
I guess I thought you were referring to LDRs, since nobody seemed to be talking about "some inherent relationship-breaking stress" that comes with law school and it would make very little sense to rail against an argument that nobody is making.
In that case, my bad for lack of clarity. I was referring to some stuff kind of brought up on the second page and anticipating a point that people tend to bring up in these threads.
No, I obviously didn't get into Harvard (which is next to MIT). It was mainly dealing with a new environment and it was a different sort of stress. Law school+engineering+stress of school=breakup.
I was referring, sort of tangentially, to this and trying to say that the inherent "stress of school" shouldnt be a huge factor b/c life would likely bring them equivalent stress(not pointing directly to this posters specific situation since I dont fully know what it was). Ive heard a lot of people talk about how much stress it could put on a relationship.