One night stand motivating me to not go to a NYC school... Forum

[Gunz353]

I am a born and raised New Yorker that has been struggling with leaving the area when it comes to law school, so this experience helped my decision a bit. So, this is a really off color tale, but the experience made me second guess my plans. I had a one night stand with a second year associate who works at Hughes & Hubbard in NYC. (I picked up all their info in the cab ride to their place by the way) We get to their place in Chelsea, and it was a real dump of a one bedroom. I was expecting a little more, even despite the out of control rent in Chelsea. The "date" in question seemed so depressed and hateful of their life. When I brought up the fact that I was going to law school, and asked about their job, they were not inclined to discuss at all and simply told me that I better go to the best ranked school I could get into and then threw me down on the bed. To end this story, the sex was horrendous and when I tried to leave they begged me to stay the night. I bolted. If this is what associate life in NYC is potentially like, I think I'll be okay with life outside NYC. Eeeek! Let the judgment and scathing remarks commence...

[chicoalto0649]

So in btl

And I've lived in NYC, it aint that great and it aint that glamorous.

Midwest for the quality of life win

Details are a little bogus in this story.


OP: How did you meet the person in question.

[icydash]

what law school did she go to?

[thedogship]

Yawn.

You met one loser/bad-hookup so being a lawyer in new york is terrible and it's better other places. ok, that makes sense.

[Gunz353]

Michigan

[Ragged]

I think their advice was solid though.

[chicoalto0649]

Michigan

There's you're problem right there..... HYS-CCN for hookups in big cities dawg

[ccs224]

I am a born and raised New Yorker that has been struggling with leaving the area when it comes to law school, so this experience helped my decision a bit. So, this is a really off color tale, but the experience made me second guess my plans. I had a one night stand with a second year associate who works at Hughes & Hubbard in NYC. (I picked up all their info in the cab ride to their place by the way) We get to their place in Chelsea, and it was a real dump of a one bedroom. I was expecting a little more, even despite the out of control rent in Chelsea. The "date" in question seemed so depressed and hateful of their life. When I brought up the fact that I was going to law school, and asked about their job, they were not inclined to discuss at all and simply told me that I better go to the best ranked school I could get into and then threw me down on the bed. To end this story, the sex was horrendous and when I tried to leave they begged me to stay the night. I bolted. If this is what associate life in NYC is potentially like, I think I'll be okay with life outside NYC. Eeeek! Let the judgment and scathing remarks commence...

Were their two of them? If not, just say he.

[so_confused]

I am a born and raised New Yorker that has been struggling with leaving the area when it comes to law school, so this experience helped my decision a bit. So, this is a really off color tale, but the experience made me second guess my plans. I had a one night stand with a second year associate who works at Hughes & Hubbard in NYC. (I picked up all their info in the cab ride to their place by the way) We get to their place in Chelsea, and it was a real dump of a one bedroom. I was expecting a little more, even despite the out of control rent in Chelsea. The "date" in question seemed so depressed and hateful of their life. When I brought up the fact that I was going to law school, and asked about their job, they were not inclined to discuss at all and simply told me that I better go to the best ranked school I could get into and then threw me down on the bed. To end this story, the sex was horrendous and when I tried to leave they begged me to stay the night. I bolted. If this is what associate life in NYC is potentially like, I think I'll be okay with life outside NYC. Eeeek! Let the judgment and scathing remarks commence...

Were their two of them? If not, just say he.

hahaha

[Abrikos]

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[T14_Scholly]

cool

[ccs224]

I am a born and raised New Yorker that has been struggling with leaving the area when it comes to law school, so this experience helped my decision a bit. So, this is a really off color tale, but the experience made me second guess my plans. I had a one night stand with a second year associate who works at Hughes & Hubbard in NYC. (I picked up all their info in the cab ride to their place by the way) We get to their place in Chelsea, and it was a real dump of a one bedroom. I was expecting a little more, even despite the out of control rent in Chelsea. The "date" in question seemed so depressed and hateful of their life. When I brought up the fact that I was going to law school, and asked about their job, they were not inclined to discuss at all and simply told me that I better go to the best ranked school I could get into and then threw me down on the bed. To end this story, the sex was horrendous and when I tried to leave they begged me to stay the night. I bolted. If this is what associate life in NYC is potentially like, I think I'll be okay with life outside NYC. Eeeek! Let the judgment and scathing remarks commence...

Were their two of them? If not, just say he.

hahaha

Hahaha but true. Us gays are the only ones who would ever try to use ambiguous (and grammatically incorrect) pronouns so consistently. It's a dead giveaway.

Don't be shady, Gunz.
Also, yes I know that it should be there not their above.

[rockchalk86]

Smart girl = bad lay

[Me-a Culpa]

I am a born and raised New Yorker that has been struggling with leaving the area when it comes to law school, so this experience helped my decision a bit. So, this is a really off color tale, but the experience made me second guess my plans. I had a one night stand with a second year associate who works at Hughes & Hubbard in NYC. (I picked up all their info in the cab ride to their place by the way) We get to their place in Chelsea, and it was a real dump of a one bedroom. I was expecting a little more, even despite the out of control rent in Chelsea. The "date" in question seemed so depressed and hateful of their life. When I brought up the fact that I was going to law school, and asked about their job, they were not inclined to discuss at all and simply told me that I better go to the best ranked school I could get into and then threw me down on the bed. To end this story, the sex was horrendous and when I tried to leave they begged me to stay the night. I bolted. If this is what associate life in NYC is potentially like, I think I'll be okay with life outside NYC. Eeeek! Let the judgment and scathing remarks commence...

and there we have it.... I'd really enjoy reading a psychoanalytical professional opinion of this and the motivation behind it. projecting insecurities? Narcissistic personality disorder?

It might be a "flame", but that is unimportant. It's the "why"? Why write this? What is the motivation, what is the gain?

[fortissimo]

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[erniesto]

Why would you hook up with a lawyer? They're the most boring people alive. Not to mention you don't ever shit in the pantry. And this wasn't even a cougar IE: partner, senior associate. EPIC FAIL.

You should have bolted as soon as you learned they were an associate. That was such a TTT decision.

[cicely101]

I am a born and raised New Yorker that has been struggling with leaving the area when it comes to law school, so this experience helped my decision a bit. So, this is a really off color tale, but the experience made me second guess my plans. I had a one night stand with a second year associate who works at Hughes & Hubbard in NYC. (I picked up all their info in the cab ride to their place by the way) We get to their place in Chelsea, and it was a real dump of a one bedroom. I was expecting a little more, even despite the out of control rent in Chelsea. The "date" in question seemed so depressed and hateful of their life. When I brought up the fact that I was going to law school, and asked about their job, they were not inclined to discuss at all and simply told me that I better go to the best ranked school I could get into and then threw me down on the bed. To end this story, the sex was horrendous and when I tried to leave they begged me to stay the night. I bolted. If this is what associate life in NYC is potentially like, I think I'll be okay with life outside NYC. Eeeek! Let the judgment and scathing remarks commence...

and there we have it.... I'd really enjoy reading a psychoanalytical professional opinion of this and the motivation behind it. projecting insecurities? Narcissistic personality disorder?

It might be a "flame", but that is unimportant. It's the "why"? Why write this? What is the motivation, what is the gain?

Agreed....you didn't even mention the schools that you are considering leaving NYC for. If you don't provide that info... honey we can't help you.

[fortissimo]

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[so_confused]

Smart girl = bad lay

I disagree.

I think the case here is:

Smart man = horrendous lay

[so_confused]

I am a born and raised New Yorker that has been struggling with leaving the area when it comes to law school, so this experience helped my decision a bit. So, this is a really off color tale, but the experience made me second guess my plans. I had a one night stand with a second year associate who works at Hughes & Hubbard in NYC. (I picked up all their info in the cab ride to their place by the way) We get to their place in Chelsea, and it was a real dump of a one bedroom. I was expecting a little more, even despite the out of control rent in Chelsea. The "date" in question seemed so depressed and hateful of their life. When I brought up the fact that I was going to law school, and asked about their job, they were not inclined to discuss at all and simply told me that I better go to the best ranked school I could get into and then threw me down on the bed. To end this story, the sex was horrendous and when I tried to leave they begged me to stay the night. I bolted. If this is what associate life in NYC is potentially like, I think I'll be okay with life outside NYC. Eeeek! Let the judgment and scathing remarks commence...

Were their two of them? If not, just say he.

hahaha

Hahaha but true. Us gays are the only ones who would ever try to use ambiguous (and grammatically incorrect) pronouns so consistently. It's a dead giveaway.

Don't be shady, Gunz.
Also, yes I know that it should be there not their above.

I'm sorry for the redundancy: but "hahahaha"

[Me-a Culpa]

Virgin who wants to get laid and pretends to have (sexual) power?

I was thinking this.... among many others. Claiming the sex was horrendous piqued my curiosity.

I have a mental picture of this geeky kid that's sex life is highlighted by masturbation.... and this makes him feel better. I could be wrong, but I doubt it.

[Gunz353]

Haha this certainly grabbed up alot of fun comments...alright, IM GAY! I SAID IT! hahaha

[chicoalto0649]

Haha this certainly grabbed up alot of fun comments...alright, IM GAY! I SAID IT! hahaha

Would be a way better story if it was some girl/girl action....

[ccs224]

Haha this certainly grabbed up alot of fun comments...alright, IM GAY! I SAID IT! hahaha

Would be a way better story if it was some girl/girl action....

Except that it would end up with them moving in together, forgoing sex, and raising an adopted chinese child in Park Slope.

[cicely101]

Haha this certainly grabbed up alot of fun comments...alright, IM GAY! I SAID IT! hahaha

Would be a way better story if it was some girl/girl action....

Except that it would end up with them moving in together, forgoing sex, and raising an adopted chinese child in Park Slope.

LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!